I haven’t written in awhile… lol. Been pretty crazy and let’s say in a total, don’t wanna talk to many men phase. hah.. ya know after a crazy break up. You just kinda steer away. Or you should. Yep.

I had something specific I wanted to say about the last two or three weeks I’ve been through but I can’t remember the words. Completely clouded from a whole bunch of things.

It’s truly funny the way that being with someone for a long period of time and change you. At the end of it all.. you’re confused. What more can I say about that. We hang onto so much inside and sometimes you never fully recover.

Sooo in light of this whole mess.. let’s start some dating tips for the ladies.. I’ll try and do one everyday. If you have any input, please comment below.

Dating Tip #1

**Very important**

Don’t sit around waiting for a guy to call or text you. Doesn’t mean you text him.. it means you do what you do and if he wants to get a hold of you, he’ll make the effort.

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Hope you enjoyed my tip for the day. haha. I’ll be back tomorrow for some more. Later gators.

a few more to go. woot!

I hope everyone had a fantastic day. Mine was hectic and very busy. As it should be. There’s nothing like having a lot of work to do to make your day fly by. Which brings me to my next point. LIFE.

There are many things we do to fill up our days. Work is one of those things which we do. Not only to make money but to live a fulfilling life. In our work we feel needed, important, useful, knowledgeable and sometimes if we’re lucky enough we will meet a friend. 

Work is work. It’s not always fun but everyone needs to do it and if you aren’t feeling fulfilled in your job it becomes monotonous and too much of a “blah” type of thing. “Do I really have to do this?”

I have to say, I am pretty lucky to date to have worked with some amazing people.. but one piece of advice. If you are not completely happy with what you’re doing, it’s time to move on. Sometimes we need a change, we need to go somewhere we can spread our wings and advance further. It’s a fact of life. If you’re not adapting and changing, what’s the point?

Anyways. Those are just my thoughts on the day. I like to be challenged, I like to keep busy and I like to be fulfilled in what I do and so should you.

Thanks for reading! :)

Soooo hopefully some of you watch this. I am a huuuuuuge Big Brother fan, in fact I’m surprised I haven’t written about this before. I’ve been watching since season 2 and in fact what got me into reality tv in the first place is because of the show ‘The Lofters’.

Most of you probably wouldn’t know this show, it was sort of like Big Brother but was run out of Toronto, Ontario. Very huge differences though. They lived in the house together, had to run their own mini segments and were able to leave the house. Sometimes the show was entertaining and the great thing is the live feeds were free and even included a live chat.

Anyyyways. For those of you who have been watching Big Brother 14, I’m sure a lot of you are like me and are sad the season is almost over. The good thing though is BIG BROTHER IS COMING TO CANADA!!! Yeaaaa boy! I am so freakin’ excited. I am going to audition next month on October 14th. A tad bit worried though because they are only doing auditions from 9am - 2pm. Doesn’t leave such an open window. But I will sleep outside the night before if I have to.

Soooo if you wanna support me. Look for the “Adriana for Big Brother Canada” group on Facebook. I really hope I make it. I’ve been waiting for this show to come to Canada for 10 years. Really. *PUMPED*

Sooo. I had a task on my hands today. I had to renew my health card. Seems like an easy enough task right? No. It never is.

I walked in, filled out their required form which made no sense because there were two different spots for residence. Went up to the desk, handed them my old health card, proof of residency, birth certificate and then my social insurance card. I was told that wasn’t enough. They wanted me to bring in my work I.D card or credit cards. Are you kidding me?

What happens if someone doesn’t have credit cards? I honestly don’t know what I would’ve done. Why is it so hard to replace a piece of I.D that I’d already had? Sooo my mission wasn’t over. I had to walk all the way back home, only to walk back to the Ontario I.D office again. This time, I made sure I brought everything.

I was super mad by the time I got to the desk, slapped down my 3 credit cards, sin card, birth certificate, proof of residency and I could’ve kept going with the amount of I.D I had. Half the stuff she didn’t even look at. Are you kidding me? So I got issued a little piece of paper with my health card info, was told “this is your health card until your new one comes in” and went on my way.

Geez. Do I not look like my picture? Not sure how often scamming happens with health card but I had more than sufficient identification to simply renew a health card that had expired a couple of months ago. Due to work, it can be difficult to run errands like that. Thank goodness it’s done.

Also, first time I have gotten my health card renewed in about 10 years. No joke. Not sure if they changed this but I simply just changed my address when I moved each time and a new card would be sent out with a new expiration date. Funny huh.

Why are government offices such a mess. Geez. *End Rant*

of feeling tired and depressed. Until you’ve experienced this sort of thing, you have no idea the weight it brings onto your shoulders.

I don’t know about you.. but I hate them. Especially when it’s still dark outside. It’s harder to get up. When it’s dark and when it’s cold. I’m one of those people who need sun. Otherwise I start to get a bit blah. I have to say, it’s hitting me already. It is also the mixture of other factors but it’s definitely the weather too.

I used to be a huge coffee drinker but it gets expensive buying it everyday and making it at home just isn’t the same. I don’t have a coffee pot, I have a kettle which could also be why it tastes like crap.

Where I live, we have a coffee culture location across the street. For convenience purposes, I’d go across the street and grab a coffee from this place. Sadly, I’ve decided to boycott this business since the owner seems to be a complete douche. This is one person who should not be in the service industry. She’s rude to her customers and gives them attitude. Oddly enough.. does not know how to make coffee properly. Every time I go in there, it tastes like crap. She gave me dirty looks last time because I grabbed an extra sugar packet or two.

Yes people, smiles and lack of attitude do matter.

In my case, after the first couple of times of bad service. I’m done. I intend to make my disappointments heard and be sure to let people know that the owner is the one driving customers away.

In any case. If you drink coffee.. remember at least one a day is supposed to be good for you. If you over do it.. this could be bad.

Enjoy your day! Thanks for reading.

I struggled with trying to decide which one I should use. Hmm. Twitter or Tumblr. Everyone has their different opinions. Mine is they are both good for something.

Twitter. I love that you can say so little in just 140 characters. You can find anyone and everyone on Twitter. It’s kinda like the cool hang out. Minus. There are too many tweens on there trying to act adult. The DM little blue light under the head doesn’t always light up for me. Sometimes I want to freakin’ vent and I can’t do that in so few characters. Ya know?

Tumblr. It’s kind of a pain in the butt. Especially when it comes to customizing your page. I still don’t truly like the way posts show up in sort of a “feed” type manor with people you’re following. I really don’t like the lack of choices for templates and I really don’t like the dashboard area. I still think there are a lot of areas that need to be revamped.

In any case, you’ll see me on both. They both serve a purpose and fill different needs. That’s my opinion. If you have a different viewpoint, feel free to comment.

Yes I’m back.. back again..

Okay, moving on. It’s been a long time since I’ve posted here, mainly because Twitter has been sucking up my every moment. I must say it is the interesting beast.

A lot has happened to me within the last couple of months and it’s been pure insane. At every point in our lives, we hit a cross roads. This is mine. The point of being mentally exhausted from dealing with too many stresses all at once. Not enough outlet. It has really been tough. Many of us go through heartache, loneliness and depression at some point in our lives. That’s sort of where I’ve been for the last little while.

It’s nice to feel wanted, have a man make you feel beautiful and the way a girl should be treated. Some of us are not so lucky. Effort has to be put in from both parties. There has to be something worth staying for and a reason why you fall for that person in the first place.

If you don’t like relationship talk, I suggest you leave now. My Tumblr will be full of yes some geekery since that’s who I am but also some thoughts on life, relationship advice for the stupid out there and other tidbits of useful information.

I hope you’ll come back and join me for more as I definitely have a lot to talk about, just not enough time.

End thought of the day - Don’t put too much effort in for someone who wouldn’t do the same for you. If a guy truly cares, he WILL make the effort to see you, spend time with you and let you know what you mean to him.

Reflections from my personal life and I’m sure many can relate. G’nite for now and thanks for reading!